Last night we went for a walk to look at the beautiful Christmas lights outside people's houses.
It's really nice to see all the effort - and I love the mood this time of year with people out and about and all happy and greeting each other.
I laughed at how commercial anything can become though - there were all these ice cream vans trying to cash in on the people walking around looking at the lights. (Yes, I caved in and bought a freckle choc top with flake).
I finished off the pressie shopping for everyone today.
At Westfield, we saw a guy at a Cancer Council stand and hubby went up to speak to him. The Cancer Council do great research in terms of both clinical trials and epidemiological studies. He was telling us about how there's been a continuous rise in testicular cancer incidence recently and how no one knows why. He also went on to tell us about how he lost his parents, sister, father-in-law and sister-in-law to cancer (and teary me was trying to not cry - he had no one to spend Christmas with). We decided to become members so that we could contribute regularly to help fund their research.
I reckon that everyone reading this knows someone who has had cancer. It's actually quite weird to group all cancers together - I mean, some forms are easily treatable, and others have easily identifiable causes (eg smoking and lung cancer, or UV and skin cancer), but there's still so many people who cannot be treated - or who can't be easily treated. And there's so much we don't know about causes and other predictive factors.
For instance, we know that testicular cancer and infertility are related somehow, but one doesn't necessarily go with the other - and apart from a vague family history trend, we really don't know why men get testicular cancer, why it affects mainly young men, and why its incidence is on the increase. But please, check yourselves out. Don't take chances and think that a lump or bump somewhere is nothing.
Incidently, and on a completely different note, I ended up getting hubby a really nice collared t-shirt, the Little Britain series 2 DVD, the Rogue Traders' CD, a The Office calendar and a David Brent poster. (He also got a Weber BabyQ a couple of weeks ago - which was supposed to be his Christmas present, but he was too excited and used it already.)
My wish for the best ever Chrissie present is for hubby to be healthy.
My second wish is to gain enough self motivation to finish my final PhD chapter and write the conclusion before I start my new job in less than a month. I can handle doing the final corrections part-time, but really, I don't want to re-enrol for a new year after the Summer holidays so I have to submit the PhD by the end of Feb, I think (note to self: call student centre to confirm this.) So send your motivational messages this way!
I wish you all a happy and holy Christmas. Take care, enjoy the time with your precious family, and eat lots of yummy food.
I hope all your Christmas wishes come true.
Hugs and kisses,
Jez
xoxox
8 comments:
Thanks for the well-wishes, Jez. Of course it is not in my power to grant either of your Christmas wishes, but nonetheless, you are in my thoughts and prayers this season, and I sincerely hope that both *do* come true for you. Take care, and be good. And Merry Christmas.
Jezzy
I think once cancer has hit your family once you can never ignore it again. Getting involved is so needed. Here we have the Relay for Life (where I shaved my head) and I intend to be in it every year from now on. Cancer is on the rise everywhere and something needs to be done.
Jezzy I hope you and hubby have a merry little Christmas.
xo
I hope '06 is a wonderful year for you. I envy the love and closeness you and Hubby have for each other...you both are truly blessed.
Yes, my grandfather (my mom's dad) I never was able to meet because he died of stomach cancer before I was even born. My aunt had breast cancer and is currently surviving it. It's hard to escape cancer in any family.
I'm sure hubby will love those pressies! Have a great Christmas, Jezzy! I'm just about to head off to my brother's house for the week with the kids and Alex to enjoy the holidays myself :)
Merry Christmas! Santa has been on a Slimfast diet all year just so he can get down your chimney quicker :)
Try to enjoy your holidays to the max, and forget about diets, this holiday is for eating :)
I can't imagine looking at Christmas lights and eating ice cream! Here it is winter, cold and wet! Nothing like a nice hot chocolate after looking at Christmas lights. Is it strange to you to think of Christmas in the winter?
Merry Christmas, Jezzy!
I'm part of the cancer club, too. It runs in my family in a big way. Although my father passed away from melanoma in 1984, the majority of the cancer stories from my family are of survival (three grandparents and an uncle).
Best Christmas wishes to you and your hubby!
Much love,
Laura
Thanks tomc.
Barbara - thanks for the well wishes. And no, its not strange to think of a wintry Christmas since there are so many Christmas songs about snow and such! I actually think a Winter Christmas is much more romantic - I was in England at Christmastime a few years back and it wa so lovely (actually I was born in England, but that's another story). But Summer Christmases are fun - and my theory is that you don't put on so much weight!
Rich - thank you. x
tonch - yup - eating is good. Hmmmm.
Laura - thanks hon. Yeah, the stories of survival are good to hear.
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